Last night time I watched an episode of Dr Phil – an American speak present programme. The matter was about “Fear”. Dr Phil had a couple of individuals on the present discussing about how worry had taken over their lives.
One of the women interviewed was afraid of dying, this affected each minute of her life. She had been to the emergency room about 15 occasions with worry of varied sicknesses like for instance a coronary heart assault, she was even afriad that while strolling down the street one thing may fall on her head and kill her. This poor woman cried by means of the programme.
Another woman skilled worry of driving and even being pushed for worry that she can be concerned in an accident with each driving expertise she undertook.
Dr Phil talked about the way it was not the precise worry they feared however that free floating nervousness caused a selected worry, principally you may be afraid of something it doesn’t matter what it’s – all of it boils right down to the identical factor which is FEAR. I might relate to this as a result of I consider that is the way it does occur);
We have all this free floating nervousness inside us, this worry and we’ve to connect it to one thing, I do not know why we decide the worry we do however one thing must justify the nervousness.
In my case with my ocd I appear to latch on to being by accident liable for someones demise in means of say if I spilt water on the ground and didn’t mop it up, I would fear about somebody slipping on it, falling over banging their head on the bottom and subsequently dying from this.
This ocd was with me for fairly some time making my life actually onerous continuously worrying about inflicting somebody demise not directly.
But what I really feel is obvious is that once we endure from nervousness which is basically “worry” we cling on to some worry and really feel it to be actual as a result of we expect it, though we all know deep down (and actually not even that deep down) that these ideas are irrational and never true.
So its not a lot what we worry – that we have now to remedy – its the worry behind it that we have now to take away.
I assume additionally as Dr Phil said, we really feel we’re dropping management – of not being in management that we primarily worry);