Thoughts and Feelings of Being a New Mom – Again

Sitting right here days after giving delivery to my second youngster, my head spins with ideas, emotions and feelings. I am unsure precisely how an individual is suppose to really feel after turning into a mom for the second time, I’m not even positive how she ought to really feel after turning into a mom for the primary time. However, I can guarantee you the 2 experiences are very totally different. With my son, I was overprotective, emotional, and scared. I keep in mind coming house from the hospital and wanting everybody to only go away so I could possibly be alone with him, hover over him, and never let anybody else contact him. Visitors got here and guests went, it appeared like they’d by no means depart. I keep in mind considering and so I’m advised even saying out loud, “I’m actually drained, I assume I want a nap”, in hopes that they might get the trace and depart. My husband says at occasions I was on the verge of impolite, and I’m not usually a impolite individual);

This time was totally different actually hours after giving delivery to my second baby, a daughter, I had a room filled with family and friends, on the hospital I may add and I was actually sitting up in mattress laughing my head off at their antics. After coming house, extra family and friends flooded in and I simply sat again smiling as they ooohed and ahhed over my daughter. It was not till the thought hit me that I was going to be caring for 2 that I even acquired in the least scared. My husband was house for every week subsequently; I had not but skilled making an attempt to try this alone. However, as quickly because the thought hit me, one other one did as nicely, “If she will do it, I can do it.” She being all these mothers you see within the grocery retailer, with new child within the automotive seat and one other youngster hanging on the top of the basket. I started to get a bit extra assured, I had accomplished different troublesome duties in my life, and certainly, I can do that);

I haven’t but found how I will make this all work, being that it’s all nonetheless very new, nevertheless, I know that I will probably be caught making an attempt to be one of the best mom I can probably be.